Explore the movie Elf (2003) with these movie discussion questions–about family, Christmas, and more! This is a heartwarming and humorous Christmas film starring Will Ferrell as Buddy the Elf.

Characters and Relationships

  • Who is your favorite character in Elf, and why?
  • If you were in Buddy’s position, how would you handle being in a new place like New York City?
  • How does Buddy’s relationship with his family and friends evolve throughout the movie?
  • How did the movie make you feel, and did you relate to any of the characters or their experiences?
  • Can you think of a time when you felt as enthusiastic and joyful as Buddy?

The Spirit of Christmas

  • How does the movie capture the spirit of Christmas, especially in the scenes set in the North Pole?
  • Can you think of any moments that reflect the joy and generosity of the holiday season?
  • What does Elf teach us about the magic of Christmas?

Humor and Entertainment

  • What are some funny moments or quotes from Elf?
  • How does the movie balance humor with more emotional or serious scenes?
  • Why do you think comedies like Elf are enjoyable for audiences of all ages?

Friendship and Kindness

  • How does Buddy’s friendship with Jovie and other characters teach the importance of acceptance?
  • What does Elf teach us about the value of embracing those who are different?
  • How does Buddy spread kindness and joy to those around him?
  • What does Elf teach us about the impact of small acts of kindness?

Belief and Imagination

  • How does Buddy’s belief in Santa Claus drive the plot of the movie?
  • Can you think of other stories where characters believe in something magical?
  • What does Elf teach us about the power of imagination and belief?

Lessons about Family

  • How does Buddy’s determination to find his father drive the plot of the movie?
  • In what ways does Buddy’s relationship with his father, Walter, change throughout the movie?
  • Can you think of any scenes where family members came together to support each other?
  • What does Elf teach us about the importance of family?

Visuals and Cinematography

  • What did you think of the visual style and cinematography in Elf?
  • How do the visuals contribute to the overall joy and whimsy of the film?